6.1.10

maybe, it's not just that he's just not that into you

a broken hearted friend told me, what happened with ben affleck and jennifer aniston in he's just not that into you happens to real people. i said what real people? it's a hollywood made believe fad. a non believer of the marital institution will not change his/her mind about marriage just because his/her girlfriend left him/her. at least not within couple of months. and just because a person slapped you with a harsh truth that someone is sometimes unappealing to others, doesn't mean that s/he is afraid of love or loving and you then can accuse him/her of so then realize that you are falling for each other.

 

what happen to real people is this. she started a relationship with somebody who gave her his whole life whom she does not actually have any feeling for. because she believes that romantic or any relationship is a commitment anyone can make as long as everyone puts enough effort to make it happen. and because he got along with everybody. even the difficult brother she was sure will never get along with any of her boyfriend. and because he is a marriage material. that will put the brightest smile to the ones most important in her life. her parents. especially the mom. then the relationship lasted for four years until it was time to getting married. god knows how hard she tried to put up with things. she does not really love him. but settled with what she had in front of her. she never refused. she never said she does not want to get married to him. or anyone else for that matter. but maybe it was true that action speaks louder than words. even the faintest gesture was readable. so, he left her. to find another woman. who is ready to get married and maybe really loves him. many months after, she was still left wondering. what went wrong. did she not really put enough effort. was she not the one who actually had the right to leave him. and not the other way around. she never finds the answer. until now. but does she wallow and whine about it? who cares? suck it. shit happens. even after you wasted four years for nothing.

 

now, why don't you make a movie about it?

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